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A
couple of years ago, at my former church, I had an
interesting day. I didn’t come into the office very
early because I had an appointment with someone
elsewhere. And before I got to the office, someone
called looking for me at about 9:30. And the church
secretary told the caller that I wasn’t in yet. Could
she take a message? Well the caller didn’t want to
leave a message; he said he’d call back. I did
eventually make it into the office, and was there for
a little while, but I had an appointment with someone
else for lunch, and we went early. And this same
caller calls back at 11:30, and the secretary tells
him now that I’m out to lunch, can she take a
message? But the caller doesn’t want to leave a
message; he’ll call back, he says. Well I left early
that day, I had a hospital visit and then a meeting up
at the Conference Center in Cranberry Township, Butler
County. And so this guy calls back at 3:00, and the
secretary now tells him that I’ve left for the day,
can she take a message? Well this time he decides
that he is going to leave a message. He says, “Yes,
ask him, ‘Where can I find a place like this where I
can work?’”
Where
can I find a place like this? Where can I find a
place? I think we’re all looking for something in
life. I think we’re all looking. And the best way I
have come up with lately to describe what we’re
looking for is to say that I think we are all looking
for a place. What if there were a place? What if
there were a place, for example, where I could bring
my sorrows and my worries and cares? What if there
were a place where I could feel nurtured and blessed,
despite all the difficulties I face in my life? What
if there were a place where I could find some real
direction for my life? What if there were a place
where I knew people really cared about me? What if
there were a place where I could feel hope again, and
joy? What if there were a place where I knew that I
could find God? What if there were a
place?
It
reminds me of that song from “West Side Story”,
“There’s a place for us, somewhere a place for us.
Hold my hand and we’re halfway there. Hold my hand
and I’ll take you there. Somehow. Someday.
Somewhere.” I could sing a verse or two for you, if
you’d like?
What if
there were a place? I was doing some reading, and I
came across an interesting theological way of
expressing this. This theologian, Marcus Borg, was
talking about finding God, finding the transcendent,
finding what you are looking for, in the “thin”
places, finding God in the “thin” places of life. Now
I have to confess that I was leery at first of this
terminology. I mean, look at this specimen you see
here before you. It’s hardly likely that I’m going to
find much of anything in the “thin” places of
life.
Although we do go to the gym, we go to the gym. I
keep reminding you of this for some reason. I know it
doesn’t look like it. There was a T-shirt they were
selling at the gym at one point, and I almost bought
it, I was going to wear it around the church. It
said, “No, I’m not on steroids. But thanks for
asking.” Anyway, we were at the gym once not all that
long ago, and Brenda didn’t want to do the bench press
that day. So I went over by myself to do the bench
press, and there was another guy there, thin, fit,
muscular, and I asked him if I could work in with him,
and he said, “Sure.” That’s the way we studly lifters
do things, we just work in with each other on the
weight machines. Brenda had taken a break, and was
sitting over at the counter, and there was another
woman there at the counter taking a break, and the two
of them got to talking. Brenda asked this woman if
she was there by herself, and the woman said no, she
was with her husband. She said that he was over on
the bench press, and then she pointed in the direction
of this other guy and me. She didn’t know that I was
Brenda’s husband and so just to clarify for Brenda
which of the two of us she was talking about, she
said, “He’s the thin one. Not the fat one.” So
Brenda said, and you’ve got to understand that Brenda
is a lot funnier since she met me, Brenda very proudly
said, “Oh my husband’s on the bench press too. He’s
the fat one.”
So I
was a little leery at first of this theologian, Marcus
Borg, talking about finding God in the “thin” places
of life. But I kept reading and working on this and
learned that this term comes out of an old Celtic
tradition, Scotland, Ireland. The “thin” places are
those places where the barrier, the dividing line, the
veil, between this world and the next, between this
temporal world where we are and a more heavenly form
of reality, is very “thin”. It’s almost as if you can
reach through this veil and experience something
supernatural and divine, you can almost experience
God. Have you ever had one of those moments when you
felt lifted up beyond yourself here and into a place
where God does seem very real, God does seem very
near?
Some
people, I know, seem to be in one of those thin places
when they read poetry.
I will
arise and go now, and go to Innisfree,
And a
small cabin [will I] build there, . . .
And I
shall have some peace there, . . .
I will
arise and go now, for always night and day
I hear
lake water lapping with low sounds
by
the shore;
While I
stand on the roadway, or on the
pavements grey,
I hear
it in the deep heart’s core.
That
was Yeats, talking about being homesick for where he
grew up in the west of Ireland, and it speaks too of
an eternal homesickness, an eternal longing that we
all have. Some people find God in poetry. Some find
God in a beautiful painting, or sitting on top of a
mountain.
I hope
at least some of you at least some of the time
experience God in church. I know I find God here.
Not in the sermon probably, but as the scriptures are
read, as the organ plays and the choir sings, as
prayers are offered, as people stream forward to place
their green prayer cards in the baskets, and kneel at
the altar, because we have a sense that prayer is
important, prayer is real, God hears our prayer, God
answers prayer, God speaks to us when we
pray.
There’s
an old story about a congregation that decided to
build a new church. They labored and sacrificed, and
finally it was finished. And the people gathered and
marveled at the beauty of it. It was a masterpiece.
But then they went inside and someone asked, “Where is
the light? It’s dark in here? There’s no chandelier
or candelabra? How will the church be lit?” And so
the architect pointed to some brackets on the walls,
and then he gave each family a lamp, and said, “Each
time you are here, the place where you are will be
lit. And each time you aren’t here, that place will
be dark. This is to remind you that whenever you are
not here, some part of God’s house will be dark, it
will be empty.”
This is
a good reminder for all of us, I think, because
ultimately it’s all about relationships, our
relationships with other people, our relationship with
God, our relationship with our own soul, with our own
self. I was watching some program on TV, I can’t even
recall exactly what it was now, but someone was
chastising another person for doing something bad, for
potentially being a bad person, and she was trying to
prevent this in this other person, so she said,
“You’re going to need your soul someday, you’re going
to need your soul, and if you’re not careful, you’re
not going to have one.”
It’s
fair warning for all of us, I think, if we’re not
careful. I’ve been talking about a place, what if
there were a place? But ultimately it’s about a place
in your heart and in your soul, it’s about a place in
the heart and soul of your relationship with other
people, and with God. Oh a church can cultivate a
sense of this, it can nurture us in the right
direction, but ultimately it’s about a place in your
own heart and soul, a place in your own deepest self,
where you can find God.
I think
this is what Jesus was trying to tell this woman at
the well. He said, Oh sure, you can go up on that
mountain to pray, probably referring to Mount Gerizim,
where there once had been a temple. It was a sacred
place to the Samaritans. Or, Jesus said, you can go
to Jerusalem to pray. But the time is coming, he
said, the time is coming, indeed it is here already,
when those who are really going to find what they’re
looking for, will worship God in spirit and in truth,
they will worship God and know God and be touched by
God at the very deepest part of their beings, at the
deepest core of their soul, at the very heart of who
they are, and it will be this change at the heart of
who we are that will affect and touch and reach out to
other people.
Tony
Campolo, a fairly famous author and speaker, tells
about the time he went to the wrong funeral. He
showed up at the funeral home, he thought he had the
right time and place, for the funeral of Mrs.
Kirkpatrick, an older woman he knew as a boy. She’d
been his Sunday School teacher. But when he got there
and looked in the casket, it wasn’t Mrs. Kirkpatrick.
Now sometimes you have to be careful, people don’t
always look like themselves at the funeral home, he
hadn’t seen her in years, but he was pretty sure this
wasn’t Mrs. Kirkpatrick, he was actually very sure it
wasn’t her. For one thing, it was a man in the
casket. And just as he was about to turn around and
leave, a woman grabs Tony by the sleeve, and with a
trembling voice she says, “You were his friend,
weren’t you?” And it was only then that Tony looked
around and realized that there was no one else there,
just the minister and this widow with her
husband.
Well
Tony just couldn’t say to her, “I’m sorry, I’m here by
mistake. Your husband obviously didn’t have a friend
in the world.” No. He told her that he was her
husband’s friend. And he stayed with her through the
service, he even went out with her in the limousine to
the cemetery. But finally when they got back he said,
“I have to tell you something. I want to be your
friend and I can’t be your friend unless I tell you
the truth. I did not know your husband. I came to
the funeral by mistake.” Tony didn’t know how she
would respond, but she said, “You will never, ever,
ever know how much your being here with me today has
meant to me.”
You
know, there’s a whole world out there, a whole world
of people who are hurting, who are in need, and they
may have no one, no one to affect their lives in a
positive way, to give them a little direction, to
touch them in a way that brings healing, there are
people out there who may have no one, no one, that is,
but you and me. What if there were a place? We’re
all looking for a place, to find God and to make a
difference in the world. That place is right at the
very heart of who we are, where we receive God and are
touched by God, and then touch others, we might be
that touch of God upon the lives of other people. |