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Somewhere I read these words of wisdom from children:
Never trust a dog to watch your food.
When your Dad is mad and asks you, “Do
you think I’m stupid?” don’t answer him.
When your Mom is mad at your Dad, don’t
let her brush your hair.
Don’t sneeze in front of your mom when
you are eating crackers.
You can not hide a piece of broccoli in
a glass of milk.
Or
what about this interpretation of Genesis by a
child?
God made men and women a long time ago.
The man was first, but he was very lonely.
So God made the man go to sleep.
Then God took out his brains and made a
woman
out of them.
Or the
man who talked about raising children who said:
“Before I got
married, I had six theories about bringing up
children. Now I have six children and no theories.”
Jesus
had a theory about children. He apparently shared it
often. It appears many times in various forms in the
New Testament narratives. It usually comes in the
context of another question from the disciples. They
ask Jesus “Who is the greatest in the Kingdom?” They
probably should have picked up some clues along the
way. But that was apparently not so, at least not yet.
So the inner circle of followers asks one more
question.
Jesus
is quiet for a moment. Then he sees a child playing
nearby. He makes eye contact. He smiles at the child.
He calls the child to him. The child is a bit shy, but
she comes. She sits on Jesus knee. Then it is that
Jesus says to the disciples, “Here is greatness. When
you re-orient your life…become like a child…you know
the greatness of the Kingdom.”
I am
fairly sure Jesus’ response caught his disciples off
guard. They must have asked, “Become like a child?
What does that mean?” Children were not especially
valued in that society. They were valued for security
in old age. But there was no inherent worth for the
child himself or herself. That is part of the reason
that the disciples tried to shoo the children away
when Jesus was busy teaching the multitudes.
This
story is another instance of Jesus turning tradition
on its ear. “Who is most important in the Kingdom? Who
is the greatest? Who gets the best seat in the house?
Why it is a child, of course. And unless you turn and
become like one you can not know the Kingdom.”
Jesus’
words are radical, revolutionary, and a re-writing of
common perception of the day. There is a prayer by
Michael Quoist which I like very much. This is what it
says:
God says: “I like
youngsters. I want people to be like them. I don’t
like old people unless they are still children. I want
only children in my Kingdom; this has been decreed
from the beginning of time. Youngsters-twisted,
humped, wrinkled, white-bearded-all kinds of
youngsters, but youngsters. There is no changing it;
it has been decided. There is room for no one else.
Alleluia! Alleluia! Open, all of you. It is I, your
God, the Eternal, raised from the dead, coming to
bring back to life the child in you. Hurry! Now is the
time. I am ready to give you again the beautiful eyes
of a child. For I love youngsters, and I want everyone
to be like them.”
Note
Jesus’ full response to the disciples. He says,
“Unless you change – unless you turn and
become…” In another words there is a
reorientation. It is truly a new direction.
A man
said to his minister one time, “I have turned my life
around 360 degrees.” Replied the minister, “180
degrees would be about right.”
Unless
you turn or change or re-route your life you are not a
Kingdom person. This does not necessarily mean from
being an evil person to being a good person - although
that is important too. This is more about turning from
being an adult to being a child. Unless you turn you
miss the power and promise of faithful living. You
will have a hard time entering into God’s plan and
purpose.
I
think there are at least two themes here.
PLAYFULNESS
The
first theme is playfulness. Elaine and I have had a
rare privilege over our years here. We’ve had two
distinct sets or generations of grandchildren. Two
decades ago we had four; Matthew, Andrew, Casey and
Luke. I wrote a book about some of their antics. One
is now a junior in college, one is a freshman in
college and the other two are 17 and 14.
But in
recent years we have had four more. They are now ages
5, 4, 3 and not quite 1. You know two of them here at
Christ church. I watch them and I spend time with
them. I see the importance of playfulness. I will
admit that I am a slow learner, but I still know its
importance. I really believe that is part of what
Jesus saw and what he elevated. Robert Neal wrote a
book some years ago entitled In Praise of Play.
He believes – and I concur – that joy and celebrative
living is a part of the Christian experience.
In
1966 there was a major exhibit of the paintings of
Picasso in France. The painting exhibit covered all
phases of his career. It told of both his “Blue
Period” and also his later life. Picasso himself was
at the exhibit. He was about 85 years old.
A
woman had been studying the paintings and came up to
Picasso and said, “I don’t understand it. Over there
are the paintings you did when you were just starting
out. They are so mature, so serious, and so somber.
But, over here are these more recent paintings - they
seem so simple, so joyful, and even irrepressible. I
would have thought the reverse. How do you explain
it?”
Picasso looked at the woman for a moment and then
said, “Mam, it is so simple. It takes a long time to
become a child.”
Life
may be a journey from simplicity to complexity to
simplicity again. Is that not what Jesus may be saying
here? In another arena there are some eloquent
descriptions of the mystery of the universe – written
by older and sophisticated physicists. It takes a long
time to become a child.
One
observer says we spend big money to buy amusements. We
spend the money because we cannot play. In fact this
particular writer says we are “amusing ourselves to
death.”
Does
this suggest a church staff position? A “Director of
Amusement” or a “Director of Play.” What would that
responsibility look like? Could someone be here in
this community of faith teaching us to play like a
child again?
Maybe
that is why we love the Christmas narrative so much.
It is eloquent in its simplicity. It is playful. It
captures your imagination. We are like children at
Christmas. We are more playful at Christmas.
Since
the death of Charles Schultz, the Peanuts comic strip
is now titled “Classic peanuts”. One of these cartoons
features the dog Snoopy. Snoopy is the symbol of joy.
In one scene, Snoopy is dancing his joy as a dog dance
and Lucy comes up to him to say, “How can you be happy
when you don’t know what this year has in store for
you? Don’t you ever worry about all the things that
could happen?”
The
next frame shows Snoopy with his head hanging with his
head dejectedly and Lucy says, “There that’s better,
live in dread, be sensible.”
But in
the final picture, Snoopy is dancing again. Dancing
and laughing in that wild exultant way, that it seems
like only puppies and children know.
HUMILITY
The
second theme that Jesus saw in children is humility.
Jesus says to his disciples, “Humble yourself like
this child.” Humility implies trust, simplicity and
dependency.”
I read
a story about a very prominent executive who checked
into a hospital. He was having some difficulty
breathing and needed to have a battery of tests.
Throughout the admissions process he was barking
orders to the hospital staff, making and receiving
phone calls on his cell phone, and giving direction to
his own staff back at the office. Finally, he reached
the last stage of admissions. The nurse carefully put
the wristband on his arm.
“What’s this for?” snapped Mr. Big. Choosing her words
very carefully, the admissions director calmly said,
“This, sir, is so we don’t give you to the wrong mommy
when it’s time for you to go home.”
One of
my all time favorite stories is the stories of four
men in a private plane flying over the desert
Southwest of the United States. On board was the
pilot, a prominent scientist, a minister and a boy
scout. The single engine on the plane began to sputter
and then it failed all together. The pilot came back
into the cabin. He said to the three other passengers,
“I am very sorry, this plane is going down. There is
nothing I can do about it. I am also sorry that there
are only three parachutes on board.” Then the pilot
took one of the parachutes and jumped.
The
scientist spoke up. He said, “I am one of the world’s
most brilliant scientists and engineers. The world of
science is dependent upon my knowledge. I simply
cannot die in this plane.” So he grabbed a parachute
and he jumped.
The
minister said to the Boy Scout, “Young man, I have had
a good life. It has been a long life as well. Yours is
still before you. You take that last knapsack and you
go ahead and jump.”
The
Boy Scout looked at the minister and said, “Not to
worry Reverend. We are both ok. One of the world’s
most brilliant engineers just jumped out of this plane
with my knapsack.”
Humility is the key to childlike living. Humility is
the most refreshing way to live.
Humility is not easy. There is a country western song
that goes something like this:
O Lord, it’s hard to
be humble when you’re perfect in every way. I can’t
wait to look in the mirror; I get better looking every
day. To know me is to love me; I think I’m a heck of a
man. O Lord it’s hard to be humble; but I’m doing the
best that I can.
Jesus
put a child on his knee. He says simply, “Be like
this. Whoever is humble like this child is the
greatest in the Kingdom.”
Perhaps this is why I enjoy my grandchildren so much.
When I am with them, I am engaging in theological
research!
Some
of you will remember the name of Carlo Caretto. In his
desert journal he wrote these words:
The natural
progression of life is from childhood to old age. On
the contrary, the Kingdom of God within us goes from
the age of an old person to the childhood of the
spiritually renewed person…in the spiritual life, one
grows in childlikeness, simplicity, impulsiveness and
joy.
Or
this challenge from the writing of Charles Peguy:
You believe that
children know nothing and that the parents and
grown-up people know something. Well, I tell you it is
the contrary. It is the parents, it is the grown-up
people who know nothing. It is the children who know
everything.
The world is always
inside out, God says. Happy is the one who remains
like a child, and who, like a child, keeps that first
innocence.
Down
through the ages, Jesus seems to be saying to us. You
want to know what greatness looks like? You want to
the best seat in the Kingdom? To know it, to
understand it, you must become like a child. Turn and
become like a child. Become like a child at play.
Become like a child in innocent humility.
Only
then can you capture a glimpse or a glimmer of what
the Kingdom is really like. |