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I want
to tell you about a man, a man I greatly admire.
Which is strange really, because this man had many
negative qualities. He was arrogant and self-centered
and almost infantile sometimes in the way he dealt
with people. And this man seems to have had no
spiritual life to speak of. He sometimes referred to
himself as an “optimistic agnostic”. And he was
perhaps the most sarcastic man who ever lived. He had
this acerbic wit. You know what acerbic means, his
words just dripped with acid and venom. So, as I say,
this is a man I greatly admire. The man I’m talking
about is, and perhaps you’ve guessed it already,
Winston Churchill. He had many faults, did Sir
Winston, but in so many ways, here was a truly great
man, the one almost indispensable man for the
twentieth century. There was a letter received in the
Post Office that was addressed only to “The greatest
man in the world, England”, and it was promptly
delivered to Winston Churchill.
As I
say, he had this acerbic wit, which is quoted
frequently. You’ve perhaps heard the story of
Churchill and Lady Astor. These two didn’t like each
other very much and they had this running battle of
words. Lady Astor once said, “Mr. Churchill, if I
were your wife I would put poison in your tea.” To
which Churchill replied, “Madam, if I were your
husband I would drink the tea.” Churchill was also
disagreeable with the famous playwright, George
Bernard Shaw. Shaw once sent Churchill tickets to his
new play with this message, “I am enclosing two
tickets to opening night of my new play; bring a
friend, if you have one.” Churchill responded with
this message, “Cannot possibly attend opening night;
will attend on the second night, if there is
one.”
And yet
Churchill was a great man. He had one characteristic
especially that we all admire, and that was his
courage. He was undeniably a man of courage, and
through his words he had the ability to instill
something of this courage in those around him. He
would stand on the roof of the Ministry of War
building during the Blitzkrieg as the bombs were
falling all over London, and everyone else was running
for cover, but there he stood, fully exposed to the
danger, but erect, immovable. His words, his
presence, gave hope to the people of England during
this desperate time. It was said during the darkest
days of World War II that the only thing standing
between England and oblivion was this one stubborn old
man.
Others
have had such courage, firefighters, for example,
police officers, who go into burning buildings 110
stories high when everyone else is running out of the
building. Those who volunteer for military service
overseas. I was reminded of the rescue crews up in
New England in the 19th century who would
row out in their little boats into these tremendous
storms in the North Atlantic to rescue those who were
shipwrecked. There’s the story of one young man who
had just joined a rescue team and he asked the captain
on a particularly treacherous night as they put out to
sea in their little boat to try to save people, “Do
you suppose it’s possible that we won’t come back?”
To which the captain replied, “We don’t have to come
back. We do have to go out there.”
Do you
remember the New York City “Subway Superhero”, as they
called him, from a year ago? He saved that man
unbelievably in the subway. Do you remember? A man
was having a seizure on the subway platform, and this
man fell onto the tracks, just as the train was coming
into the station. So this man, this hero, jumped down
onto the tracks, as the train is just right there, and
protected this man, covered him with his own body,
while the train passed overhead, within inches of
hitting him in the head and killing him.
And
then there was this 19-year-old boy named Jeremy
Hernandez, who just a month ago was returning on a
school bus with a group of children and teenagers,
they were returning from an outing to a water park
when the bridge they were traveling on in downtown
Minneapolis just collapsed. And this young man Jeremy
suddenly became a hero who saved so many of the
stunned children and teenagers who were on that
bus.
I have
to tell you friends, I’m not sure I have this in me,
this kind of courage. Do you? I would feel more at
home with the courage of this truck driver I heard
about who was sitting at the counter in a diner, his
tractor-trailer was out in the parking lot. And it
was kind of a tough crowd in that diner, some real
roughnecks. And in walked these three Hell’s Angels
types, now I know I have to be careful how I phrase
this, but these three really rough guys, their
motorcycles were out in the parking lot, and they were
obviously looking for trouble. So they saw this truck
driver at the counter, and he must have looked like an
easy target, so they went over, and one of the Hells’
Angels grabbed this man’s hamburger and took a bite
out of it, and another took his coffee and took a
drink, and the third one ground his cigarette butt
into this man’s French fries. Well the truck driver
didn’t say a word. He just got up quietly, walked
over to the cashier, paid his bill, and walked out.
One of the Hell’s Angels said to the cashier, “He’s
not much of a man, is he?” And the cashier, who was
looking out the window at the parking lot said, “No
he’s not. And he’s not much of a truck driver either
apparently, he just ran over three motorcycles out
there in the parking lot.”
Now
that’s more my speed, that’s more my kind of courage,
kind of subtle, yet playful. I just don’t think I
have this other stuff in me. But what is courage
anyway? What is the quality of a hero that we’re
really looking for? Is it possible for you and me
ever to be a hero? Is it possible for someone really
rather ordinary to be a hero?
I heard
about a man by the name of Clark who, when he was
young, some years ago, went with his father to the
circus. They stood in line to buy tickets, and there
was a family of eight just ahead of them, the parents
were holding hands and excited, the six children, all
under the age of twelve, were jabbering on about all
the things they were going to see and do at the
circus. When they reached the counter to buy tickets,
the attendant asked how many tickets they wanted, and
the father of this family proudly said that they
wanted two adult tickets and six for the children.
And so the attendant quoted the price of those eight
tickets, and the man’s jaw just dropped. He leaned a
little closer and asked, “How much did you say it
was?” And the attendant again quoted the same price.
It was obvious this man didn’t have the
money.
Well
remember that Clark and his father were standing right
behind this family and it was right then that Clark
saw his father do something that he would never
forgot. He said his father put his hand in his
pocket, pulled out a twenty-dollar bill; this was back
when a twenty could buy you something, and dropped it
on the ground. He then tapped the father of the
family of eight on the shoulder and said, “Excuse me
sir, didn’t this twenty-dollar bill just fall out of
your pocket?” Well this man couldn’t quite believe
it. He looked into Clark’s father’s eyes and knew
what was going on. He took the twenty and shook his
hand and with a tear streaming down his cheek said,
“Thank you sir, thank you. This really means a lot to
me and my family.” Well Clark and his father went
back to their car and drove home. They didn’t go to
the circus that day; they didn’t have the money now.
But it didn’t matter. They had done something much
more important.
Now to
me, this man, Clark’s father, is something of a hero.
Here is a man who is compassionate and generous, and
who seems to still be growing in his understanding of
compassion, still learning, still seeking, still
looking for new ways to express his compassion and his
concern for people.
In
fact, I want to propose this idea. I read somewhere
once that the quality that is the most important for a
hero is the ability to learn from life, the ability to
learn, the ability to grow and develop and mature.
Someone put it this way, a hero is one who is educated
by all things; no matter what happens you can learn
from it and grow from it. It was said of the poet
Goethe that everything nourished him, everything
nourished him.
Now you
might think that this is kind of an odd quality to
single out for a hero. But think of this, to be open
and willing to change and grow, to determine that you
are not necessarily going to be the same person in a
year or two that you are today, because you are going
to allow God to come into your life and work on you
and develop you and take you over and take you where
he will, no matter where it might lead. There’s
something daring in this, isn’t there, heroic? To
intentionally choose this path, to have this desire to
learn and understand and know.
A
recent historian has written that Abraham Lincoln was
perhaps the least experienced and most poorly prepared
person ever to sit in the White House. And yet he
became arguably our greatest President. And the
reason is, this historian claims, that he had this
enormous capacity for growth, he had this enormous
capacity to mature, to learn and grow from his
mistakes and failures.
Someone
told me once a long time ago, “If it’s worth doing,
it’s worth doing poorly.” If it’s worth doing, it’s
worth doing poorly. Now usually you hear, “If it’s
worth doing, it’s worth doing well.” But I like this
other way better, I think, if it’s worth doing, it’s
worth doing poorly. If it’s worth doing, it’s worth
taking the risk, in other words, it’s worth making
mistakes, and it’s worth failing possibly, if to fail
means that you absorb something new and learn and
grow. ‘
Frank
Lloyd Wright, the architect, was once asked what his
greatest work was, what building that he had designed
was his greatest work, and his answer was that his
greatest work was his next work, his next work. He
wasn’t resting on his laurels. He wasn’t finished yet
with his life. My greatest work, he said, is my next
work, the one I’m thinking about now, what I am about
to do.
Churchill never said it better, I don’t think, he
never said it better. Jesus did though, Jesus did.
Jesus said, in his parable on what our lives might
mean, on how heroic we might become, on how we might
grow and develop and mature, he said this, “Some seed
fell on good soil, on fertile soil, on soil that was
ready to receive it. And it came up and grew and
produced a crop, multiplying thirty times, and sixty,
and even a hundred times what it once was.” |