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The great evangelist Dwight L.
Moody once said:
Happiness is caused by things
that happen around me. Circumstances will mar it; but joy
flows right through trouble; joy flows on through the dark;
joy flows in the night s well as in the day; joy flows all
through persecution and opposition. It is an unceasing
fountain, bubbling up in the heart.
So, Christian joy is the “unceasing
fountain bubbling up in the heart.” What about someone who
lost both their business and their home in the recent flood
here in Pittsburgh? Are they filled with joy? Or what about
someone who lives with chronic pain? Is that person supposed
to have joy as well? Or what about someone who has looked long
and hard for employment in order to support their family,
without success? Do they have the unceasing fountain of joy
bubbling up in the heart? Or what about that person who has a
great job, makes decent money, but who hates his or her work?
What about the person who is desperate to get away from that
work, and can’t even afford to think about leaving? Where is
his or her joy?
Joy can seem to be so elusive.
Someone once made the observation, “We are born naked, wet,
and hungry. And then things get worse.
Jesus said, “I have said
these things so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be
complete.” (John 15:11)
Or what about this text from the
Old Testament book of Jeremiah: “They shall come and sing
aloud on the height of Zion, and they shall be radiant over
the goodness of the Lord… their life shall become like a
watered garden, and they shall never languish again. Then
shall the young women rejoice in the dance, and the young men
and the old shall be merry. I will turn their mourning into
joy, I will comfort them, and give them gladness for sorrow.”
(31:12-13)
The Bible is full of honest
stories of difficulty and struggle. But the Bible also
resonates with shouts of gladness and joy. Yet somehow that
joy seems to be so elusive.
A preacher was doing a
children’s sermon one Sunday in church. He gave each child a
little acorn and said that the acorn contained a miracle. If
they planted it in the ground, it could grow into a giant oak
tree. In the greeting line after church, one little boy came
up to the preacher and plaintively said, “Preacher, I lost my
miracle.”
Sometimes we plaintively say,
“God, somewhere I lost my joy!”
Does God really intend life to
be a joy? Is life supposed to be a joyful noise? Let me share
some of the things that I believe.
JOY IS GOD’S INTENT FOR US
First, we need to recognize that
joy is God’s intent for us. Joy is in the very nature and
creative purpose of God. There is an old catechism that says,
“The chief end of life is to glorify God and to enjoy God
forever."
William Sloane Coffin once
wrote: God does not want us narrow-minded. God doesn’t want
us priggish. God doesn’t want us subservient, but joyful.”[i]
United Methodist Bishop Kenneth
Carder once said this: “Perhaps crisis talk may be the real
crisis confronting the United Methodist Church. It seems to be
diverting us away from the bold and hope-filled proclamation
of God’s reign of justice, compassion, generosity, and joy.
While we engage in crisis talk within the church, the world
keeps filling with hurting, broken, starving, abused, hated,
depressed, and dying people who need to hear and see a church
that really believes the Gospel.”
God’s intent for you and for me
is to be joyful.
GO DEEPER
Then we must go deeper into our
own souls. Joy is not found on the surface, but deep inside.
A few months ago I read about a
society in America I did not know existed. It’s called “The
Secret Society of Happy People.”[ii]
It apparently has about 6000 members. The society was founded
in 1998 and established a “Admit You’re Happy” month. It was
the month of August. That month is actually recognized in 19
states. People who belong to the society wear buttons that
read something like this, “Don’t even think about raining on
my parade.”
But the war in Iraq, the
economy, and 9/11 have changed a lot of things. The “Society”
has dumped the “Admit You’re Happy” month. Instead, they now
call it “National Happiness Happens” month. It is an attempt
to recognize that happiness still happens.
This is not all bad, but it’s
pretty shallow. We need to go deeper. I have a colleague who
preached a sermon a while back called “Deep Dish Joy.”
I have a friend who suffers from
a number of physical infirmities, as he grows older. He has
said publicly and privately something I shall never forget: “I
am determined that nothing will ever take away my joy.”
The joy of which Jesus speaks is a deep down, deep-dish joy!
It is a deep down joy that transcends any difficulty.
A pastor with youth in a large
United Methodist church in New Jersey writes this:
The church is called to be
with the oppressed, the poor, the aching, the hungry. And
youth are all of those things—psychologically, socially, and
cognitively. They’re searching, they’re hungry. They are “the
least of these” in a lot of ways. The church is called to be
there with them. That’s why I am in youth ministry. I think
that Jesus is a very real answer to the problems facing youth,
and so that’s why the church is in the business of ministering
to youth in its own right rather than just taking money and
giving it to the boys’ and girls’ club or some other secular
organization working with youth. It’s not that if youth accept
Jesus into their life then, Bam! Life is great. Accepting
Jesus into their life does mean that Jesus is walking
alongside them in their pain, frustration, and loneliness.[iii]
There is a joy in going deeper
into your own soul.
TRY THE DISCIPLINES
Next, we need to try the
disciplines of joyful living. Paul was an amazing man in many
ways. Whatever else you may think of Paul, he was a joyful
person. Philippians is probably his most joyful piece of
writing. Paul knew that joy is infectious.
In the introduction to Ephesians
by Eugene Petersen, we read these words.
This is Paul’s happiest
letter [albeit written from a prison cell]. And the happiness
is infectious. Before we’ve read a dozen lines, we begin to
feel the joy ourselves—the dance of words and the exclamations
of delight have a way of getting inside us.
Paul knew the disciplines. He
shared them from the “inside.”
Bill Coffin writes again:
Strangely enough, it is
because we are so passionless that we are so joyless, for
passion leads to the springs of gladness…Like Jesus we can be
full of joy, strongly invulnerable in the difficulties of
life.[iv]
Reading the writings of those
who seem to have the discipline can many times be helpful.
Describing a period in his career when health was fragile and
spirits were low, the famous filmmaker Ingmar Bergman wrote in
his autobiography, “I was about to lose my joy. I could
feel it physically. It was running out. It was just drying up
inside.”
Then Bergman recalled how Johann
Sebastian Bach learned that his wife and two children had died
while he was away on a trip. In his diary Bach had written,
“Dear Lord, may my joy not leave me.”
Bergman commented, “All
through my conscious life I have lived with what Bach called
his joy. It carried me through crisis and misery, and
functioned faithfully in my heart, sometimes overwhelming and
difficult to handle, but never antagonistic or destructive.”
Bergman called this state his joy, a joy in God.[v]
Let me share one more quotation
that I found in a book by Dr. Harold Koenig on the medical
staff at Duke University.
I am convinced that complete,
total commitment to serve Jesus Christ and nothing less will
result in greater joy, peace, happiness, purpose and power in
life. Until my own 33rd year of life, I was never
really at peace, never really experienced sustained joy and
satisfaction, never was confident of my direction in life. I
restlessly chased after joy and happiness in relationships
with women or in advances in my career. There was no real
consistent direction or meaning to my life. That all changed
when I decided to turn my life over to Jesus, and began to
actively cultivate a relationship with God. Through prayer,
study of a contemporary, understandable version of the Bible,
participation in religious worship and fellowship, and in
carrying out my calling as a physician to minister to the sick
and hurting, the process of emotional healing began.[vi]
I remember that 6 or 7 years ago
I had a short-term bout with some skin cancer. Neither my
doctor nor I knew what might lie ahead. In the midst of that I
began an early morning ritual of walking. Each morning I
prayed the same prayer as I began to walk, “God, thank you for
this new day and for life in it.” I still try to do that each
day, long after the news about my skin cancer was good. For me
it’s part of the discipline of joyful living.
Jimmy Dean, country music star
turned pork sausage king, co-wrote a song about celebrating
life’s little blessings. The title of the song is, “Drinking
from my Saucer.” Here is the key verse.
So
Lord, help me not to gripe
‘Bout the tough rows that
I’ve hoed.
I’m drinking from my saucer
‘cause
My cup has overflowed.
Remember the story of the woman
who had a pet parakeet named Chippie? One day she was using
the vacuum cleaner hose to clean out the bottom of Chippie’s
cage. The telephone rang. As she reached over to pick up the
telephone to answer it, she inadvertently tilted the vacuum
hose upward and suddenly sucked Chippie up into the vacuum
cleaner.
Terrified by what she had done,
she quickly hung up the phone, turned off the vacuum cleaner,
tore open the bag and found Chippie inside. He was still
alive, but he was a filthy mess and badly shaken. Not knowing
quite what to do, she took him to the kitchen sink and tried
to wash the dirt off him. That just made things worse. Finally
she put him back in his cage and hoped for the best.
About a week later, the friend
who had called the day of the accident called again. She said,
“How’s Chippie?” Responded the other, “Well, I’m not sure I
know. Chippie doesn’t sing much anymore. He just sort of sits
and stares.”
When life shakes you up, don’t
just sit and stare. Keep singing, and engage in the
disciplines of joyful, faith-based living!
IT ALL COMES FROM JESUS
Finally, remember that all of
this comes from Jesus. A noted psychologist once wrote, “People
who control the inner experience will be able to determine the
quality of their lives, which is as close as any of us can
come to being happy.”
I disagree. We cannot control
the quality of our lives for the most part. Least of all can
we produce or manufacture joy and happiness. Remember Jesus
said, “My joy is in you, so that your joy is complete.”
Charles Haddon Spurgeon once
said, “I commend cheerfulness to all who would win souls.
There is a great abiding joy in the presence of Jesus. No
matter what happens, we must not let that joy elude us or slip
away.”
Sometimes when I lead the
children of our Child Care Center in the Kingdom Kids time
here in the sanctuary, we sing a song together. I teach them
two versions of the song. The first version goes like this, “I
have joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart, down in my heart. I
have joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart, down in my heart to
stay.”
After we’ve sung that song I
teach them a little different version. It’s essentially the
same song, but with an important difference. It goes like
this, “I’ve got the joy of Jesus, joy of Jesus down in my
heart. Where? Down in my heart, down in my heart. I've got the
joy of Jesus, joy of Jesus down in my heart, down in my heart
to stay.”
That may seem a bit simplistic.
But it illustrates an important difference. Jesus is the
source, the model, and the root of all joy. Jesus said, “I
have come that my joy might be in you, and that your joy might
be complete.
Think about it. Receive that joy
as a gift today. Then live it to the glory of God!
Amen.
[i] From an interview in “Zion’s
Herald,” May-June 2004, p. 16
[ii] See “Newsweek,” 8/9/94, p. 11
[iii] From Mike Baughman, assistant
pastor for youth ministries at the First United Methodist
Church in Somerville, NJ, quoted in Context for March
2004, part A, p. 4
[iv] “Context”, March 2004, p. 2
[v] Thanks to Rod Wilmoth for this
reference in one of his sermons
[vi] from The Healing Connection,
p. 117
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