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There is a prayer in the worship
tradition of the African-American church that goes something
like this:
Thank you, God, for waking me
up this morning; for putting shoes on my feet, clothes on my
back, and food on my table. Thank you, God, for health and
strength and the activities of my limbs. Thank you that I woke
this morning in my right mind.
Not a bad
prayer to start the day…any day, or every day.
Sometimes prayers of
thanksgiving are scarce. One of Shakespeare’s plays says,
“Beggar that I am I am even poor in thanks.”
The Psalmist says, “It is good
to give thanks to the Lord.” This is more than a pious saying,
more than just plain common sense. It’s also more than a
casual expression. This is a profound truth in which to live.
It is a good thing to give thanks. Why? I believe the
Psalmist knew several things.
FOCUSING ON GOD
For one
thing, giving thanks focuses your attention on God. Our
culture is not anti-God; but it tends to focus our attention
elsewhere.
Thanksgiving is a holiday that
retail America ignores. They know that the important holiday
is right after Thanksgiving. The Christmas emphasis comes
right after Halloween. Thanksgiving simply marks the beginning
in earnest. One writer says this:
If you are a retailer, you
don’t want to emphasize Thanksgiving. If you are thankful for
what you have, you’re not as likely to rush out and buy more
stuff. And that’s bad for America.
My
personal discipline is to stay out of the stores on the two
days after Thanksgiving! I give myself a reasonable chance and
some space to say a sustained “Thank you” to God.
Thanksgiving focuses our
attention upon God. I have a colleague who suggested in the
early fall that his congregation engage in a 30-day
discipline. He advised them to get a journal, and at the end
of each day write down five things for which they were
thankful. They always had to be different things. There were
no repeats allowed.
What if you did that each day
from now until Christmas? My guess and my conviction is that
it would help you focus upon God. Thanksgiving does that.
Garrison Keillor is best known
for his weekly radio show entitled “Prairie Home Companion” on
PBS. But every day people tune in to hear him for 5 minutes in
the morning on the program called “The Writer’s Almanac.”
During those 5 minutes Keillor reads a poem. They are not his
poems; they are poems that he has selected. He has just
published a new book entitled Good Poems. The first
section is entitled simply, “O Lord.” Mostly they are prayers
of gratitude for sheer existence.
Keillor was asked whether or not
gratitude seemed like the fundamental religious dimension to
life. Listen to his response to an interviewer.
Yes indeed. Gratitude is
where spiritual life begins. Thank you, Lord, for this amazing
and bountiful life and forgive us if we do not love it enough.
Thank you for this laptop computer and for this yellow kitchen
table, and for the clock on the wall and the cup of coffee and
the glasses on my nose, and for these black slacks and this
black T-shirt. Thanks for black, and for other colors. Thank
you, Lord, for giving me the wherewithal not to fix a
half-pound cheeseburger right now, and to eat a stalk of
celery instead. Thank you for the wonderful son, and the
amazing daughter, and the smart, sexy wife, and the grandkids.
Thank you that I haven’t had alcohol in lo these many months,
and thank you that it isn’t as big a struggle to do without as
I had so feared it might be. Thank you for the odd delight of
being 60, part of which is the sheer relief of not being 50.
Keillor concludes, “I
could go on and on. One should enumerate one’s blessings and
set them before the Lord. Begin every day with this exercise.”[i]
Eugene Peterson writes of a
young man in his congregation. The young man and his wife were
enthusiastic participants in the church. But the weeds of the
world began to choke their young faith. They had several
children. They acquired wealth. Their lives began to be filled
up with boats and cars and house building and social events.
They were at worship less and less. Then they were there not
at all.
One bright Sunday morning they
showed up again. “What brought you to worship today?” Peterson
asked. He received this response: “I awoke this morning
feeling so good, so blessed, so alive, so created—I just had
to say ‘thank you.’ And this is the only place I could think
of to say it adequately. I wanted to say ‘thank you’ to
Jesus.”[ii]
Giving thanks can bring you into
an overwhelming experience with God.
I came across this Jewish
Passover prayer:
Even if our mouths were
filled with songs like the sea, our tongues with joy like its
mighty waves, our lips with praise like the breadth of the
sky, if our eyes shone like the sun and the moon, and our
hands were spread out like the eagles of heaven, if our feet
were as swift as the deer, we should still be incapable of
thanking you adequately for one thousandth part of all the
love you have shown us.
RESHAPING YOUR DAILY LIFE
Giving
thanks can also reshape your daily life. I think the Psalmist
knew this. Gratitude can change your life.
Too often our lives focus upon
the hardships. A second grade teacher made an assignment to
her class. She asked them to put themselves in the place of
the Pilgrims. What kind of hardships did they endure?
One boy returned to class the
next day with his assignment complete. He reported that the
Pilgrims had difficulty keeping their pants up. “How did you
make that discovery?” asked the teacher. He replied, “I
pretended I was one of the Pilgrims. I dressed like one. And
as soon as I put my belt on my hat, my pants fell down!”
Giving thanks takes the focus
off the hardships. To give your life as an expression of
gratitude makes a world of difference.
Annie Dillard wrote, “I think
that the dying pray at the last not ‘please,’ but ‘thank you,’
as a guest thanks his host at the door.’”
In a
little village in Denmark there is a carefully manicured and
landscaped cemetery next to the community church. At least a
third of the markers in that cemetery have the inscription, “Tak,”
which means “thanks” in Danish.
In the same interview mentioned
above, Garrison Keillor says, “List your blessings and you
will walk through those gates of thanksgiving and into the
fields of joy.”
Dennis Prager is a conservative
columnist in America. One night he was being interviewed by
Larry King. Prager said, “The most important component of
happiness, by far—there isn’t a close second—is gratitude. My
favorite holiday is Thanksgiving, the day of gratitude to
God.”
Last year
I preached on the story of the ten lepers healed by Jesus. You
may recall that ten lepers came to Jesus to be healed. He
healed them all, but only one returned to give thanks. Last
year I focused on the nine who did not return. I speculated as
to why they didn’t return.
A few weeks ago I read a sermon
by Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa. He preached a message
in which he focused on the one who did return. He
comments that it almost seemed as though Jesus heals the man
again. He says to him, “Rise, go, your faith has made you
well.”
And then Tutu says,
I have thought that perhaps this
Gospel story points to a deeper leprosy of the spirit, the
leprosy of ingratitude. To be unthankful, to be unappreciated,
is in fact to be diseased. To cleanse our spirits of
depression, of self-pity and other forms of spiritual leprosy,
we have to be thankful, appreciative persons.[iii]
White the
nine others may have found healing in their bodies, this man
found healing in his soul. Gratitude will do that.
Research is now showing that
people who count their blessings—who really count them one by
one—sleep better. They also show significant improvements in
mental health. They even show improvements in physical health.
And this appears to be true whether you are a high school
student in the peak of health, or whether you are an older
person with chronic illness.
A blind man was asked by a
sympathetic woman, “Doesn’t being blind rather color your
life?” He responded this way, “Yes, but thank God I can choose
the color. And since I am responsible for my life, I’m going
to keep on choosing the most beautiful colors I can.”
Your life will grow deeper and
richer when you are grateful.
A BLESSING TO OTHERS
And you
will also be a blessing to others. Giving thanks puts your
whole life on a new course.
I was very much taken by last
Sunday’s prayer of confession in our worship service. It spoke
to me deeply—especially the last line. The line read, “Forgive
us, Almighty God, for the times we have been blessed, but have
failed to bless.”
There’s an old phrase that says
we are “blessed to be a blessing.” But it’s so true. Thankful
living changes us. We reach out more. We want to touch others
with hope and encouragement. We want to heal some of the small
hurts of the world.
I invite you to set for yourself
a special Thanksgiving to Christmas discipline this year. Get
a small journal or use a paper tablet. At the end of each day,
write down 5 things for which you are thankful out of that
day. Never repeat any one thing—at least not in the same way.
Choose the colors of gratitude
for the next few weeks. Name the blessings of each day—one by
one. You will be drawn closer to God. And you will
significantly reshape your daily walk.
Amen.
[i]
from “The Christian Century”, March 22, 2003, p. 21
[ii]
from an article entitled “Birthing” in the Christian
Century, January 6-13, 1999, p. 27
[iii]
from An African Prayer Book, New York: Doubleday,
1995, p. 53
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