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Since we are talking about
stewardship this weekend, I thought I’d share with you a
tongue in cheek advertisement I received recently from the
Balmy Vibra-Pew Company. “The Balmy Vibra-Pew will help
pastors who are edgy over stewardship issues. The Balmy Vibra-Pew
is based on the coin-operated vibrating bed often found in
motel rooms. When the proper amount is deposited in the slot,
a church member will receive 15 minutes of soothing massage in
his or her pew. Once relaxed, a person is more open to
passionate pleas for improved stewardship. A mild electric
shock delivered halfway through the message insures
wakefulness.”
Listen to a story from Mark’s
gospel as recorded in the New Testament in contemporary
language by Eugene Peterson.
Sitting across from the
offering box, he was observing how the crowd tossed money in
for the collection. Many of the rich were making large
contributions. One poor widow came up and put in two small
coins—a measly two cents. Jesus called his disciples over and
said, “The truth is that this poor widow gave more to the
collection than all the others put together. All the others
gave what they’ll never miss. She gave extravagantly what she
couldn’t afford—she gave her all.” (from Mark 12)
It was an
ordinary day at the temple. People were coming and going, as
they always did. Jesus was in one of the outer courts with his
disciples. On the surface, he might have just been resting.
Maybe he and the disciples were hanging out for a while. Maybe
they were doing some people-watching.
The implication, however, is
that Jesus had done this fairly often. On this particular day,
Jesus is ready to conduct a seminar on discipleship. He is
ready to make good use of a teachable moment.
Jesus and the disciples sat near
the temple offering box. The people came by that day doing
their duty. The offering back in those days did not come in a
worship service. There were no computerized envelopes, no
checks, no direct deposit, no checking account transfers.
There was not even any paper money. All of the offerings came
by way of coins, as the people passed through the temple.
There is some indication that this was a daily ritual for many
people.
The story says that some people
put in rather large coins, maybe something the size of a
silver dollar. Luke’s version of the story says, “They were
rich. They could afford to give.” Luke means here that they
had plenty and could easily share.
Then Jesus sees her coming—a
widow of very meager means. She comes quietly, unobtrusively,
almost hoping not to be seen. Jesus nudges his disciples.
“Heads up, guys. Watch her. Watch what she does.”
She drops two coins into the
offering box. Then she walks briskly and quietly away. “Did
you see that?” said Jesus. “They gave out of their abundance.
But she gave out of her substance.”
You might ask, “How did Jesus
know?” Certainly these two small coins would have easily been
hidden in the woman’s hand. How did Jesus know how much she
put in the box?
In order to answer this question
you have to know something about the structure of the offering
boxes. They were wooden boxes attached to the wall of the
temple. Out of each box there was a large, spiraling metal
horn with a huge opening at the top. It would be like a wide
mouth tuba in the orchestra. You could literally toss a coin
into the opening and it would rattle all the way down into the
box. It might be something like a basket on a tollbooth where
you toss in a quarter as you drive through.
If it was a large coin, it made
a lot of noise. In fact, it would make quite a racket. Jesus
knew the sounds of the metal coins. Jesus is teaching
discipleship. And what do we learn about discipleship from
this story?
One way to read this story is
that we need to give everything. This woman gave all she had,
and she went without food. This was her last money on hand;
this was the last money in her possession.
But I do not believe that is the
central message in this story. Jesus does not ask us to go
without food or shelter. Jesus does not ask you to give it all
away. He did say that to one man at one point—the story we
sometimes know as that of the rich young ruler. But this was a
specific instance of an individual who was bound up in his
wealth.
I do not believe this is Jesus’
point here. Rather, there are two important lessons in this
story about discipleship.
YOU GIVE SUBSTANTIVELY
First,
you give to God substantively. I read about a minister who
prayed every Sunday as he faced the altar when the offering
plates were brought forward. On this particular Sunday he
prayed, “Dear God, protect us from members of this church,
who, when it comes to giving, stop at nothing.”
You may give to the United Way,
or to the March of Dimes, or to the Heart Fund. You mostly
give modestly to these. It’s what we call “out of pocket”
giving. But to God, says Jesus, you give substantively.
There’s a story about an IRS
agent who called a man in to audit his tax return. The man
showed a modest income of $12,000 a year. He also showed a
gift to his church of $1200 a year. The agent knew that that
was possible, but not the norm. It looked suspicious.
When the man arrived at the IRS
office, the agent asked for receipts. The man pulled them out.
He had canceled checks. He had a statement from his church.
All of them were readily produced. The agent said to the man,
“I’m sorry to have called you in, but you have to admit that
this is not the way most people give. I had to check.”
The man said it was fine, that
he was glad to be there. Then he said to the agent, “By the
way, could I invite you and your family to come to my
church?”
“No, thanks, I already have a
church of my own.”
Responded the man, “Oh, I’m
sorry, that possibility hadn’t occurred to me.” The agent
spent much of his day pondering that answer. He had met a man
who had given substantively. Is that what being a believer
means?
The text asks us, “Are you
giving out of your abundance? Or are you giving out of your
substance? Are you giving from leftovers? Or are you giving
from the top?” This is what the Biblical notion of “first
fruits” is all about. In Biblical times you gave the first
bushel of apples, the first bushel of peaches, the first
bushel of wheat.
I remember a day when our
children were small. They were watching over my shoulder as I
was doing the family budget and paying some of the bills. I
had a ledger in which each item in the budget was listed. I
suddenly realized that if I was to be faithful to what I
really believed, our tithe needed to be at the top of that
list. From that day on, it has always been the top item.
Remember that God does not ask
for everything you have in the offering. (God does ask
for everything you are, but not always in the offering.) God
does not ask you to give what you do not have. God never has
and God never will. Rather, God says, “Make giving a priority
in your life. Make it a lifestyle.” Jesus says here, “Give
substantively. Let there be a generous flow through you.”
Remember my story about the
college dorm where a young man had his own answering machine?
When you called, this was the message: “Hi, this is Dave. If
it’s Mom or Dad, please send money. If it’s a friend, you
still owe me money. If it’s the phone company, I sent the
money. If it’s the student loan office, you didn’t loan me
enough money. And if it’s a female, leave your name and I’ll
call you right back. And don’t worry, I have plenty of
money.”
Most of us have more to give
than we realize. Jesus says, “It is fairly easy to give out of
your abundance. But I ask you to give out of your substance.”
GIVE TO GOD JOYFULLY
Second,
you give to God joyfully. Giving is never intended to be a
chore or a burden. If it is, you probably should not give.
Somewhere in the archives of my sermons I have a message
entitled “On Knowing When to Tear Up Your Pledge Card.” One of
the reasons you should tear up your pledge card is when giving
ceases to be a joy for you.
Jesus saw
joy on the face of the widow at the temple. Christian giving
is intended to bring joy within. Paul talks about being a
“cheerful giver.” By that he does not mean something frivolous
or happy-go-lucky. Paul is talking about a deep down,
soul-stretching, soul-stirring joy.
I hear
story after story about tithing. I heard a couple recently who
changed their lifestyle and made some sacrifices in order to
be able to tithe. Once they began, they reported this to their
church: “We were amazed to discover we can still pay our
bills. Giving substantively turned out to be fun. It turned
out to be thrilling.”
There was
a couple going out of church one day, the mother holding a
young child in her arms. The woman said to the minister, “I
apologize for my baby being so fussy today. He’s just starting
to teethe.”
The
minister said, “Oh, that’s quite all right. I understand. What
I am curious about, though, is why your husband was crying.”
“Oh,”
said the woman, “he’s just starting to tithe.”
Substantive giving is a source of joy, not tears. The woman in
our story for today had found something of that joy. I think
Jesus saw something happening to her. Jesus saw a lightness in
her step as she passed the coin box. And maybe—just maybe—she
danced her way out of the temple that afternoon.
A
missionary to Zaire in Africa was preaching his first sermon
in a mission church. When the time came for the offering, the
people brought their offerings forward. But he noticed they
didn’t just bring it forward. They danced
forward. They danced and sang as they brought their offerings.
After the service he asked one of the people, “Why do you
dance and sing when you bring your offering forward on Sunday
morning?” Came the reply, “When we take a gift to our tribal
chief, we always dance as we present the gift. How much more
appropriate to dance and sing before the King of Kings?”
Are you a
dancing giver? I remember the day that our family sat down to
the dinner table one night when I was 11 or 12 years old. My
father announced to the family that he had just gotten a
raise. He was now going to be earning $10,000 a year. My
sisters and I looked at each other and said, “Wow, we’re
rich!” My mother and father looked at each other and said,
“Just think, we can now give $1000 a year to the church.”
I never
remember ever seeing my parents dancing, in the true sense of
the word. But on that particular day I saw dancing in their
eyes—dancing in their spirits.
Maybe you
need to dance a bit as you bring your cards forward today.
Dance before God. Dance in your hearts! The point is not the
size of the gift, but the difference it makes in your life.
Consider
where you have been in the past year. Why might you want to
make a pledge today that is both substantive and deeply
joyful? Why might you want to increase your pledge for 2004?
Why might your giving make you dance on the inside?
Has faith
laid a claim on you as never before? Do you see this church as
a solid rock in a shaky world? Does this church mean more to
you than you can say? Then maybe your giving for the coming
year should be more substantively joyous.
Are you
discovering that one of your spiritual gifts may be the gift
of giving? Do you believe that church giving goes farther than
any other charity (as I believe)? Do you want to invest in
something that lasts and lasts and lasts? Then perhaps this
time your pledge should be more substantively joyous.
Has Jesus
lit a fire under you this fall, and is that fire burning
brightly right now? Then perhaps your gift should be more
substantively joyous.
Has your
son or daughter found a new love for the Bible stories because
of Sunday school or Vacation Bible School or the children’s
ministry here? As a teenager, have you met Jesus through
Confirmation or Chapel Choir or the Christ Church youth
ministry? Are you someone who is grateful to be a part of a
church that is an open and hospitable community of believers?
Are you excited about our opportunity to reach young adults at
Abel’s Place? Do you know someone who has found a vibrant
faith here? If any of these things are true, then perhaps this
is the time to think of a more substantive, joyous gift.
I
received a letter this week from one of our members that
closed with these words: “Thank you, Christ Church, for giving
me the food to nourish my soul.” Substantive giving grows out
of substantive living.
Pearl
Bartel once said, “I fail or succeed in my stewardship of life
in proportion to how convinced I am that my life belongs to
God.” Jesus wants to stretch you and me as far as possible
within our gift zone. Jesus wants to take you beyond your
comfort zone to your gift zone, and then stretch you even
farther. That’s what God has done for Elaine and me, year
after year. He has stretched us and nourished us in the
vibrancy of giving.
Jesus
calls you and me beyond any and all mediocrity. Jesus calls us
to the kind of excellence that honors God. Giving is an act of
worship which creates a generous, joyous, substantive flow
through you and me. And that’s discipleship!
So let me
ask you the question once more this morning. What did Jesus
see in this little moment in the temple court? What did this
woman at the temple offering box feel? Did she feel depleted,
or delighted? Did she feel required, or rejuvenated? Did she
feel duty-bound, or doubly blessed? What do you think?
I think
she danced her way home that day. I think she danced because
she knew how much her God meant to her.
I invite
you to dance your way forward this morning. Make your
commitment a joyous matter of substance, and then dance your
way home. Such dancing is the way of a vibrant faith.
Amen. |