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Today we are confirming 37 youth
into full membership in the church. The class is a little
smaller than the last two years. Maybe 1989 was a slow year
for some reason (!)
Confirmation is a “marker” on
the road toward Christian maturity. I was confirmed at the age
of 12 on a Palm Sunday afternoon at the Mt. Lebanon Methodist
Church. I remember the day fairly well. There was a large
crowd. Those of us in the class had met a half dozen times or
so with the minister. It was a modest time of preparation, but
we were ready and we were eager.
I was taught that Confirmation
was a marker, a special place on the timeline of my walk with
Jesus, a special place on the continuum of discipleship.
Confirmation is not a beginning, or an end. It’s a marker.
Actually it’s one of several markers.
Baptism is a marker. Marriage
can be a marker. Learning your spiritual gifts is a marker.
Experiencing some kind of call from God in your life can be a
marker. Joining a CBS group or a Covenant Group can be a
marker. Confirmation is a marker.
I found the text today from the
book of the prophet Isaiah, which can describe that marker
experience. The text reads this way: “The Lord guide you
continually, and satisfy your needs in parched places, and
make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered
garden, like a spring of water, whose waters never fail.”
Isaiah describes what might be called ideal growing
conditions.
He talks about “parched
places.” I think he refers here to growth in the midst of
struggle and uncertainty. When you stay with God, you get
through the dry periods. You even thrive.
We all have dry periods, do we
not? Confirmands may be too young to understand this yet. The
older you get, the more you know this truth. There are times
when God seems remote or distant or even absent. There are
times when prayers seem to bump against the ceiling and fall
back.
Parenthetically, someone gave me
a list of alternative meanings for words, found in the
Washington Post a few months ago. For example, “flabbergasted”
means you are appalled over how much weight you have gained.
“Bustered” means a very rude metro bus driver. “Coffee” means
a person who is coughed upon. But this is the one I like the
best… “Frisbyterianism” is the belief that when you die, your
soul goes up on the roof and gets stuck. Some people believe
their prayers go up on the roof and get stuck.
There are times when devotions
seem a drudgery, or an empty duty. There are times when we
don’t know why we continue.
Someone once said that
Christopher Columbus didn’t know where he was going. When he
got there, he didn’t know where he was. When he got back, he
didn’t know where he had been. Sometimes a little chaos and
parched spirit can be helpful.
There is a book in my personal
library by Martin Marty entitled A Cry of Absence. The
subtitle is “Reflections on the Winter of the Heart.” I read
it about two and a half years after I came to Christ
Church—early in 1983. That was a very dry time in my sense of
call. I was experiencing what Marty calls a “wintry sort of
spirituality.”
But wintry spirituality can
produce good growth. I turn again to the story of Nelson
Mandela in South Africa as told by Anglican Archbishop Desmond
Tutu. Mandela was in prison for 27 years. Part of that time he
worked in a limestone quarry. His eyesight was actually
damaged during that time. Bishop Tutu writes about those years
in this way.
Such utterly futile drudgery
could have destroyed lesser mortals with its pointlessness.
Everything had been done to break Mandela’s spirit and to make
him hate-filled. In all of this, the system mercifully failed
dismally. He emerged a whole person. Those 27 years and all of
the suffering they entailed were the fires of the furnace that
tempered his steel, that removed the dross. Nelson Mandela
emerged from prison, not spewing words of hatred and revenge.
He amazed us all by his heroic embodiment of reconciliation
and forgiveness.[i]
Good Christian growth does not
come only during periods of “summery spirituality.” Sometimes
a cry of absence, a winter frost, a dryness can help.
I have vegetable plants growing
under lights in our home. (Elaine laid down the law this year;
I could not start them on the dining room table. I had to find
another place.) All of the instructions for starting plants
indoors contain the same specific recommendation: “Be sure to
harden off the plants outdoors for a while before planting
them in the garden.” Plants needs to experience the outdoor
air, the wind—even a bit of cooler air. When they do so, they
will be healthier and sturdier in their growth.
Years ago my father was
diagnosed with cancer. The cancer was a marker in his life,
but also a clear point of growth. In a kind of journal letter
that he wrote to the family one year before his death, he said
this: “As a Christian, I feel that I walk stumblingly hand in
hand with Jesus. I can, with his help in strengthening me,
face whatever life blesses or swats me with.”
Sometimes your best growth will
come after a season of parched places. Someone has said God
promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
Isaiah also refers to the
strong bones. “The Lord guide you continually… and make your
bones strong.” The bones to which Isaiah refers are the
spiritual structure to your life.
This past Wednesday I had the
opportunity to have some bone density screening because of
some work that was being done with our Triple A luncheon
group. I happened to get an excellent rating. But what about
the spiritual structure that promotes good growth?
All I know to do is to use the
tools given for building strong spiritual bones. I spoke to
some of those tools during Lent—tools like prayer, Scripture,
communion, and fasting. Most of our Confirmands have had a
session on prayer with Mrs. Osborne. Most of our Confirmands
received Bibles as third graders, five or six years ago. Most
of them received Communion with their families last Sunday,
and some of them received Communion with their mentors during
the period of the Confirmation training.
Use the tools that God gives,
promoting good growth. Keep at them, no matter what. Somewhere
I came across this little bit of doggerel poetry which seems
to apply here.
Two frogs fell into a deep
cream bowl,
One was an optimistic soul;
But the other took the gloomy
view,
“I shall drown,” he cried,
“and so will you.”
So with a last despairing
cry,
He closed his eyes and said
“Goodbye.”
But the other frog, with a
merry grin,
Said, “I can’t get out, but I
won’t give in!
I’ll swim around until my
strength is spent,
For having tried, I’ll die
content.”
Bravely he swam until it
would seem
His struggles began to churn
the cream.
On top of the butter at last
he stopped
And out of the bowl he
happily hopped.
What is the moral? It’s
easily found.
If you can’t get out—keep
swimming around!
Keep at those things which
build strong spiritual bones.
Dr. Robert Chesnut retired as
the pastor of East Liberty Presbyterian Church last Sunday,
after 14 years of leadership in that congregation. In his
book, he describes how they build the congregation with an
acronym known as SEEDS: Search, Enlighten, Enthuse, Deepen,
and Serve. Here is another way to grow strong spiritual bones,
another means to achieve ideal growing conditions.
Finally, Isaiah says that the
Lord will guide you. For us that means let Jesus be your
guide.
I read a story about a father
who was being pestered by his young daughter while the father
was trying to read the newspaper. Finally, with some
exasperation, he tore a sheet out of the newspaper with a
printed map of the world on it. Tearing the map into small
pieces, he gave it to his daughter. “Go into the other room
and see if you can put it together,” he said.
She was back in three or four
minutes, the picture put together perfectly. “How did you do
it so quickly?” he asked. “Oh,” she said, “on the other side
was a picture of Jesus. When I got Jesus in place, the world
came out all right.”
When Jesus is in place, life
thrives—even in difficult times.
Here at Christ Church we try to
provide ideal growing conditions for all who would enter. We
try to provide blessed assurance even in the parched places.
We try to provide encouragement in the disciplines that build
strong spiritual bones.
And always, we are centered on
Jesus, the master of your soul.
As we mark this day of
Confirmation, get in touch with the ideal growing conditions.
I close with this wonderful
quotation from the movie, “The Rookie,” where Dennis Quaid
plays the real-life story of baseball pitcher Jim Morris. At
one point in this remarkable story, Jim Morris’ dad quotes him
a line from Jim’s grandfather. It goes something like this:
“It’s okay to think about what you want to do, until it’s time
to start doing what you were meant to do.”
What were you meant to do?
Today answers that question. You were meant to be a follower
of Jesus. That’s the sum and substance of what this weekend is
all about. May it be a marker for us all.
[i] Desmond Tutu, No Future
without Forgiveness, 1999, p. 39
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